Adoption is different to parenting birth children. You need the same strength of character, perseverance and patience AND you need empathy, understanding and a huge barrel of compassion.

Bravery is central to adoption. The brave hearts of these children who have many times been let down very early in their lives, the bravery to keep going, to be resilient, resourceful and to dare to trust again is amazing.

Also those looking to be adoptive parents – the bravery you will need to parent in a therapeutic way is immense. There will be and are times of doubt, struggle and despair. BUT the courage to carry on means we can make a difference and help break the cycle for our children.

BraveHeart is about supporting adopters in ways that will produce resilience and strengthen all the muscles needed to be a good parent, friend and comforter to our children. Sometimes we lead them, other times we will have to walk along side them, other times we may have to let them walk a different path. All the time we need more strength, awareness and understanding of their challenges.

Our hope is that through the support we provide a positive outcome will be seen for adoptive families, and that more people will take up this incredible challenge and privilege.

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The voice of the child

This expression is used a lot within the adoption world. Many times social workers comment on the importance of the childs' needs within our care system - that everything we do throughout the process ...
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There’s a hole in my bucket

"He's just attention seeking, if you give him attention it won't do him any good" - this phrase and words to these effect are typical words we hear as parents  and professionals. When you see a chil ...
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What happens when you slow down?

What happens when you slow down? When you stop the running around, dashing from one place to the next, focused on what's coming and what needs to be done. What do you see, feel and hear when you can ...
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When do we stop running?

  My kids love to run. They run from the bedroom to the bathroom, they run downstairs, they run to the car, they run from the car into school. All day they run. It struck me this morning as I droppe ...
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What is it about birthdays?

What is it about birthdays? They come once a year - just one day but they can hold so much in them - memories, anticipation, sadness, happiness, surprises and shocks sometimes! It's my birthday today ...
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